It's the end of October and some of us are beginning to think of the holidays. Fall foliage paints the landscape with beautiful hues of color, the weather turns cooler and furnaces hum to life for the season. Store shelves are stocked with candy for Halloween trick-or-treaters (and for people like me who try to avoid buying it until the last minute). Pumpkins turn into Jack-o-Lanterns, mums grace the porches. Thanksgiving plans get rolling with menus, locations and travel ideas being discussed. Then there's Christmas, Hanukkah, New's Year Eve and Day. It's a busy time.
It's also a busy time for charities. Many people wait until the end of the year to donate to non-profits and most of us support organizations that serve a cause we believe in. But if you're new to giving or if you are looking for a new direction in which to donate, charitynavigator.org is a great website to get you started. Vital information is provided on all non-profits listed on this site (for instance what percentage of money donated actually supports the cause versus the percentage used for expenses/overhead, etc.).
Of course, not all non-profits are listed on the charity navigator website. A few of the ones I support aren't, but they still do significant work and need our support. The list below includes organizations that I feel are important. Included are St. Joseph's Indian School which serves the Lakota/Sioux children and their families of South Dakota, The Elephant Sanctuary in Tennessee is a refuge for elephants that are old, sick or retired from zoos or circuses, Monero Mustangs Sanctuary is located in New Mexico and rescues wild horses native to the area, Loaves and Fishes Community Pantry is a food bank located in Naperville, Illinois.
Loaves and Fishes Community Pantry
Greater Chicago Food Depository
ASPCA
American Red Cross
Northern Illinois Food Bank
National Trust for Historic Preservation
World Wildlife Fund
St. Joseph's Indian School
St. Jude Children's Research Hospital
The Elephant Sanctuary
The San Diego Zoo
Best Buddies
Spina Bifida Association
4 Paws for Ability
Special Olympics
Monero Mustangs Sanctuary
Donations are accepted year-round, not just year-end and in addition to monetary gifts, some gladly take non-perishable food items, clothing, toys, etc. If you have personal time to give, volunteer. Sometimes that's what it takes to make you feel as if you're making a difference. And you are.
Author ~ Photographer ~ Artist ~ (Actively Blogging Since January 10, 2012)
Thursday, October 24, 2013
Wednesday, September 25, 2013
La Folie
While I continue to await the fate of my latest novel (the manuscript is still out with literary agents), I'd like to share another short story I wrote recently. "La Folie" is not quite flash fiction, but is a short enough read that I hope you take the time to enjoy it. As always, copyright applies (©Veronica Randolph Batterson).
La Folie
By Veronica Randolph
Batterson
The woman danced. She clutched the baby to her breast and
let the sound of the music carry her feet across the room.
Gracefully she
moved and as light as a feather, her toes touched the floor for a split second
before the next step continued the motion. Hips swaying, she arched her back, feeling the song in her
heart as it traveled through her body.
Her movements were effortless and sensual. Those who watched were entranced, unable to take their eyes
from her form.
It had been her
life. Dance. The dream, the classes, auditions and
rehearsals. The hard work paid off
and she’d performed across the finest stages in New York and Europe. Everyone came to see her.
“Yes, they all came
to see,” she whispered.
Pivoting sharply,
the woman shifted the child to one arm while grasping the folds of her skirt
with the opposite hand. The silk,
organza and tulle made soft swooshing sounds as the fabric brushed against her
calves. She danced with abandon,
eyes closed as if in a trance, never loosening her hold on the baby.
Paris had been
her favorite, she remembered. The
city was alive with people; bistros and outdoor cafés bustled with business and
artists flocked to the area to work.
It was the one place she fit in and it was the city in which he’d found
her.
That memory
caused her to stumble, shaking her from the trance and causing her to grip the
child protectively. She refused to
remember, focusing on her movements to help erase all thoughts from her mind. It was the only way. But her thoughts kept interrupting. It was an annoyance that wouldn’t allow
her any solitude.
“What is wrong
with her? Do you think she’s ill?” the voice whispered. Her mind recalled the questions but it
seemed she was just hearing them for the first time. Just dance, she insisted, pushing the voices from her
head.
But her
movements became erratic. No longer
fluid and graceful, the woman‘s motions were shaky and she faltered, all
confidence broken. Her feet felt
heavy and she was suddenly clumsy.
Memories did that to her and she became frustrated. He had no right creeping into her brain
again. She was safe now, they told
her. Just not safe from those
horrid thoughts.
“Poor woman,”
the voice said in English.
“Oui. La folie,” came the French
response.
Madness. She spoke enough French to recognize
what they meant. They thought her
insane. Sometimes she wondered it
herself. At other times, her
thoughts were clear and she could rationalize and process her life and where it
had led her. It was in those times
that she knew he had been responsible for her escape into the folds of lunacy.
She no longer
heard the music. Slowly opening
her eyes, reality returned in a rush, causing her to catch her breath at the
ugliness. Looking down, her baby
stared back with blank button eyes, its vinyl arms extended in a frozen
form. Her feet were bare and
dirty, the cotton of her dress hung limply on her thin body. She touched her face and felt the
swollen jaw. If she had a mirror,
her reflection would reveal a cut lip and black eye and years of faded bruises
that never completely healed, instead marking her face with the shame she’d
endured.
The sting of a
tear fell on her injured lip. A
fist to her face and a stillborn child were images that played through her head
like a movie reel on repeat. Black and white, over and over. She pressed her hands to her temples
and willed it to stop, but other thoughts took over, filling her mind with
sadness. Her memories were real
now, lucid.
She had met him
in New York, a rich man with powerful connections. She was young and naïve, looking for that big break as a
dancer, but struggling to make ends meet.
He came in for coffee where she worked. Before she knew it, he was wooing her with money, expensive
gifts and promises of introductions to famous Broadway producers. She no longer had to worry about rent
or food. He moved her into her own
apartment and, for a while, she was dazzled by his charm and attention. But things began to change after a few
months. He started coming up with
excuses when he couldn’t see her.
And those promises of business introductions never materialized.
Finding herself
alone one evening, she called a friend and they met for drinks. When she came home, he’d been waiting
for her, angry. That was the first
time he ever hit her and if she’d had the courage, it would’ve been the only
time. Instead, she stayed. Months turned to years and all she did
was get older. The control and
abuse extinguished her ambition and will to live, until she discovered she was
pregnant. Knowing if she stayed,
the child could be harmed, she fled to France with the help of a friend.
She lived in
Paris for six months, slowly looking at life a little more brightly, until she
saw him one day, waiting for her outside her little flat. There was no time to scream, as he
grabbed her and barely waited until they were inside before the beatings
started. An intervening neighbor
saved her life. He fled before
authorities could get there.
Her child did
not survive. The despair made her
unable to cope and she retreated into the fantasies her mind provided her. There, she danced and her baby
lived. It was a safe place for her
to be. It was happy.
She clutched the
doll tightly. Her head hurt and
she wished the memories would stop.
If she started screaming, the nurses would give her a sedative to calm
her. But she’d learned that while
drugs removed the pain, they also prevented the descent to her other
world. She didn’t like the
soulless state those narcotics put her in.
Closing her
eyes, she thought she heard music.
Yes, there it was.
Returning to her like a long lost friend. She embraced it and gave in to it, relaxing as she moved. Once again mother and dancer; once
again on the finest stages where everyone came to see.
©Veronica Randolph Batterson
Thursday, August 29, 2013
Pen Pal Era and the International Youth Service
I'm revealing my generation and age in this post but both are needed to explain the topic and why it makes me feel a little nostalgic.
It was the late 1970s. I learned to type, not "keyboard" as my children did, in a typing class using a manual typewriter. Eventually, I upgraded to an electric typewriter and thought it pretty advanced at the time. There were no personal computers or cell phones, so text messaging and instant anything were things of the future. Our world wide web was found in libraries that offered reference books and encyclopedias. Anyone remember the Dewey Decimal System? What about pen pals?
In 1977, my high school French teacher believed in cultural exchange through an organization called the International Youth Service (IYS). Founded in 1952 and located in Finland, the IYS was an international penfriend organization. For a small fee per address, the IYS matched students (between the ages of ten and twenty) around the world. Pen pals were found based on age, country, interests and language abilities. Of course, my French teacher suggested we request students from France, but the beauty of IYS was your name went into a "pool" of students. This allowed the opportunity to have multiple connections from all over the world. And I did.
I communicated with several students from Italy, Northern Ireland, England and France. Some lasted only through a few letters. Two of them, however, shared letters, postcards, photos, birthdays and Christmas celebrations with me from 1977 until I graduated from college. Then, as with everyone, "life" started and we all got too busy to write letters. Contact was lost. Unfortunately, the pen pal generation ended, as I knew it, and IYS closed its doors in 2008, stating it couldn't compete with the Internet.
It was the Internet that actually allowed me to reconnect with one of my friends. I received a Facebook message a few years ago from someone asking if I knew one of my former pen pals. The message came from my friend's daughter and her mom had been looking for me. Fortunately, my maiden name is part of my full name on Facebook. She might not have found me otherwise.
From that point on, my friend and I have picked up where we left off, catching up and sharing our lives through emails instead of postal letters. She still lives in Milan, Italy and is a successful businesswoman. Luckily for me, her English is perfect. She refuses to get a Facebook page, but her daughter and I are trying to convince her to change her mind. Maybe she'll come around to it someday.
As for my other friend, I think I've found him via Google. When we were young letter writers, he was training to become a chef. He eventually left Northern Ireland to live in London, and in his letters he'd often explain the training he would go through. I found my box of letters from that time (I still have all of them) and in one he'd described going to a Bob Dylan concert in London in 1981. In another, he mentioned going out in London (1981) to "celebrate the wedding of Di and Charley" even though it meant nothing to him. Recently, when I searched his name online, I found a chef with his own restaurant in Ireland, which seems to being doing well. I'm happy for him and hope to make contact one day.
I'm surprised, but pleased, the IYS was able to stay operational as long as it did. I'm also sorry that the younger generations can't experience connecting with people the way I did. Yes, it's easy and immediate now but at the same time probably less personal. In my opinion, it's the same with sending Christmas cards (a tradition we still follow). Nowadays, people send holiday greetings via email, and that's okay. Times change and eras merge. Letters rarely go via the USPS, or snail mail as it's commonly referred to now (Pony Express in the old days). Fast, high-speed, instantaneous...all adjectives to describe our lives today, and the way connections are made around the world. Perhaps remembering how things were once done helps us appreciate the now. It does for me...while I readily become nostalgic, too.
It was the late 1970s. I learned to type, not "keyboard" as my children did, in a typing class using a manual typewriter. Eventually, I upgraded to an electric typewriter and thought it pretty advanced at the time. There were no personal computers or cell phones, so text messaging and instant anything were things of the future. Our world wide web was found in libraries that offered reference books and encyclopedias. Anyone remember the Dewey Decimal System? What about pen pals?
In 1977, my high school French teacher believed in cultural exchange through an organization called the International Youth Service (IYS). Founded in 1952 and located in Finland, the IYS was an international penfriend organization. For a small fee per address, the IYS matched students (between the ages of ten and twenty) around the world. Pen pals were found based on age, country, interests and language abilities. Of course, my French teacher suggested we request students from France, but the beauty of IYS was your name went into a "pool" of students. This allowed the opportunity to have multiple connections from all over the world. And I did.
I communicated with several students from Italy, Northern Ireland, England and France. Some lasted only through a few letters. Two of them, however, shared letters, postcards, photos, birthdays and Christmas celebrations with me from 1977 until I graduated from college. Then, as with everyone, "life" started and we all got too busy to write letters. Contact was lost. Unfortunately, the pen pal generation ended, as I knew it, and IYS closed its doors in 2008, stating it couldn't compete with the Internet.
It was the Internet that actually allowed me to reconnect with one of my friends. I received a Facebook message a few years ago from someone asking if I knew one of my former pen pals. The message came from my friend's daughter and her mom had been looking for me. Fortunately, my maiden name is part of my full name on Facebook. She might not have found me otherwise.
From that point on, my friend and I have picked up where we left off, catching up and sharing our lives through emails instead of postal letters. She still lives in Milan, Italy and is a successful businesswoman. Luckily for me, her English is perfect. She refuses to get a Facebook page, but her daughter and I are trying to convince her to change her mind. Maybe she'll come around to it someday.
As for my other friend, I think I've found him via Google. When we were young letter writers, he was training to become a chef. He eventually left Northern Ireland to live in London, and in his letters he'd often explain the training he would go through. I found my box of letters from that time (I still have all of them) and in one he'd described going to a Bob Dylan concert in London in 1981. In another, he mentioned going out in London (1981) to "celebrate the wedding of Di and Charley" even though it meant nothing to him. Recently, when I searched his name online, I found a chef with his own restaurant in Ireland, which seems to being doing well. I'm happy for him and hope to make contact one day.
I'm surprised, but pleased, the IYS was able to stay operational as long as it did. I'm also sorry that the younger generations can't experience connecting with people the way I did. Yes, it's easy and immediate now but at the same time probably less personal. In my opinion, it's the same with sending Christmas cards (a tradition we still follow). Nowadays, people send holiday greetings via email, and that's okay. Times change and eras merge. Letters rarely go via the USPS, or snail mail as it's commonly referred to now (Pony Express in the old days). Fast, high-speed, instantaneous...all adjectives to describe our lives today, and the way connections are made around the world. Perhaps remembering how things were once done helps us appreciate the now. It does for me...while I readily become nostalgic, too.
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Monday, July 29, 2013
O Mio Babbino Caro
For my latest blog post, I'm sharing a short story that I recently completed. The title is "O Mio Babbino Caro" and it is a story of lost love, aging and dying and the significance of a Puccini aria (which is also the title of the short story) to the couple in the story. As usual, I'm appreciative of all who read my blog. Thank you and, as always, copyright applies (©Veronica Randolph Batterson).
©Veronica Randolph Batterson
O Mio Babbino Caro
By Veronica Randolph Batterson
The old man blinked. His vision was cloudy but he knew
someone was standing in front of him. He could barely make out a shape, but he sensed it was a
woman. The scent told him so. He’d long since lost his vision and the
ability to taste much of anything, but his sense of smell was as sharp as ever. And the smell was perfume. It was a fragrance that took him back
to a time he was recalling more often lately.
She was saying something to him. He was trying to listen but it was
difficult to hear. He’d lost that,
too. The hearing aids no longer
helped much so he’d stopped using them.
He tried to concentrate, straining his ears but he couldn’t make out the
words. The woman’s voice continued
causing him to wonder if the person standing in front of him was even saying
anything. Damn it, was he losing
his mind, too?
Then he heard the music. The sounds from the violin were clear
and sweet and took him back just as the fragrance did. She was smiling at him, and he could
now see her face. The brown eyes
were soft as they gazed back at him, and she began to hum along to the
music. It was more than familiar
to him. It had been their
song. The beautiful aria from that
silly Puccini opera had mirrored their lives. At least he had thought so.
“O
Mio Babbino Caro, mi piace, è bello, bello.”
She would always translate for him,
singing the Italian lyrics, then translating the meaning to English. She’d done
it so many times that he remembered, even after all this time, the
meaning. “Oh my beloved father, I love him, I love him!”
He smiled as he remembered. Oh, Sophia, he thought as he closed his
eyes. The longing and sadness for
something that never was threatened to envelope his heart as strongly as it did
decades ago. He had loved a woman
he couldn’t have. She loved him in
return. Parental interference
doomed their fate, sealing their separate lives. Emptiness followed.
He had been a young, American art student
studying in Rome when he met Sophia and her family. Her father had hated him instantly. It was Easter and a long holiday weekend
loomed for him, as his friends were spending a few days in Greece. He hadn’t the money to travel, so he stayed
behind. His apartment felt empty
with everyone gone, so he’d wandered out for the evening and found himself
amongst tourists, sitting at an outdoor café in Piazza Navona.
Crowds moved in and out of the nearby
Pantheon, with most stopping to pose for the obligatory photo in front of the
historic structure. Children
played tag and parents bustled them closer. The atmosphere was light and laughter rang through the
twilight, enhancing the charm of the evening.
“Scusi,” a female voice interrupted his
trance.
She stood before him smiling, the young
woman he’d noticed in one of his classes.
The one with the soft brown eyes and smile that could light the
night. He recovered his wits and
stood.
“You are the Americano, sì? The one in my
class?” she asked.
“Yes,” he replied.
“May I join you?” came her voice.
He nodded and blurted, “I’m happy you
speak English. My Italian is almost non-existent.” That made her laugh, he remembered, and gave him
confidence. They sat together and
shared some wine, talked of life and who they were, what they thought of the
world and their hopes for the future.
Time passed quickly and a shadow suddenly appeared, even though the sun
had long said goodnight.
“Sophia,” the masculine voice bellowed,
“Vorremmo andare a casa.”
Behind the voice stood a stern faced man
and next to him was his wife.
Sophia’s parents. The tone
and look of the man were enough to make Sophia rise without question. “I must go,” she whispered, slipping a
piece of paper discreetly across the table to him.
“Ciao,” she said more loudly, turning to
leave, and added, “Buona Pasqua!”
Happy Easter, he understood, as she
walked away with the couple. He watched
until they were no longer distinguishable, blending into the mass of people
enjoying the night. Glancing down,
he opened the note.
“Tomorrow, noon, Trevi Fountain,” she’d
scribbled on the paper.
That time couldn’t get there soon enough,
he thought, remembering how he got to the location an hour early. The beautiful fountain was swarming
with tourists, many tossing a coin over their shoulders into the water in hopes
of returning to Rome one day. A
ritual for all who visited the fountain and something he had yet to do. Perhaps he’d have a reason to do so,
afterall.
She greeted him with a smile, touching
his arm as he turned toward her.
Sophia was wearing large-framed sunglasses with dark lenses. The
sunlight, reflecting on the water in the fountain, danced across her face and
highlighted the caramel and chestnut colors in her dark hair. An awkward silence was brief, as a
child squealed with delight at a bird that fluttered too close. They laughed in response and their
nervousness vanished, allowing a comfortable ease to settle between them.
That spring went by quickly, he
remembered. They spent most of
their free time together, meeting after classes, taking walks along the River
Tiber, spending Sunday afternoons lounging in the Villa Borghese gardens and
eating gelato. He’d found time for
them to be alone together in his apartment, too. Her kisses made him dizzy and the sweet perfume she wore
would always make him remember.
They would lie together on his bed with the window open and that was
when he’d first heard the aria. It was as if the wind carried the tune up to
them, drifting in the breeze and fluttering past the curtains for their ears
only.
“O
Mio Babbino Caro, mi piace, è bello, bello. Vo’andare in Porta Rosa a comperar l’anello!”
Sophia sang along, her voice close to his
ear as he held her. He didn’t care
what the words meant. It was her
voice and her presence that held him intoxicated, like a drug that had taken
over his body. He had no control
and he didn’t care because it was relaxing and comforting, erasing all thoughts
from his mind.
“Aren’t you curious?” her English broke
through his trance.
“Tell me,” he replied.
“Lauretta loves Rinuccio, but there’s
trouble between their families that threatens them being together,” she
explained.
“Sort of like us?” he asked.
“She sings this to her father,” Sophia
continued, ignoring him. “She
wishes to die if she can’t be with Rinuccio.”
“Why doesn’t your father like me?” he
persisted.
“He’s set in the old ways. He wishes me to marry Giancarlo,” she
said.
Giancarlo. His rival. The
tall, muscular young Italian, with model good looks and a chiseled face. The one who had his eyes on every
female he passed, yet seemed to look straight through Sophia with impatience
and disinterest. Why would a
father want that for his daughter?
He knew there would be no happiness for Sophia in a marriage such as
that one.
“Sì,
sì, ci voglio andare! E se l’amassi indarno, andrei sul Ponte Vecchio, ma per
buttarmi in Arno!”
She continued to sing in his ear but his
mood had changed. His future
didn’t include Sophia, as he knew she wouldn’t defy her father. The aria didn’t
exactly tell their story but he felt the pleas to a father to understand how a
daughter loved were about him.
On the day Sophia married Giancarlo, he
left Rome, never to return. It was
a good thing he hadn’t tossed a coin into the beautiful Trevi Fountain, he
remembered. He had no desire to
ever go back.
Searing pain ripped through his chest,
his attention on the present yet he still sensed the woman nearby. He seemed to be in a hospital room,
reclining on a bed with shadows standing around him. The pain was unbearable. He faintly heard the steady beeping of a machine
somewhere. Was that his heart
beating? Was he dying? The shadows shuffled, merging together
then parting into several forms.
It was getting harder to breathe, but he felt light for some reason and
the pain started to recede.
Then the beeps were replaced by the
music. The lovely aria played
through his head while his surroundings turned white, the shadows disappearing. He saw her clearly as she stepped
forward, her eyes just as bright as he’d remembered. She took his hand and he walked with her. He had no pain and he felt the youth of
sixty years ago with the woman he loved walking beside him.
O
Mio Babbino Caro, no
more.
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
Estate Sales of the Future...Strip Before Entering
For many years, I've enjoyed attending estate sales. When I owned an antiques business, a great deal of my merchandise came from these sales and from auctions. Since I closed my business, I no longer spend weekends searching for treasures to resell, but I do occasionally attend a sale if I have time. Sometimes it's just the thrill of the search for me and I do find things that are personal and I keep them for myself. Mostly, I enjoy the history behind the items and sometimes the homes that I see.
It seems estate sales aren't what they used to be. Attending one recently left me with little, if any, desire to step foot in another one. Upon reaching the front entrance of the sale, potential customers were bombarded with signs that had been taped all over the screened porch. The estate sale company listed so many "dos, don'ts and warnings" that I wondered if we'd be searched upon entering. Close.
Entering wasn't easy. Handbags weren't allowed inside. All purses were to remain in your vehicle, the sign had read. Grumbling, I made my way to the car, stashed my purse and went back to the house. I sarcastically thought they wouldn't want me to leave my money in the car, now would they? This better be worth it, I griped further.
Once given the "yea" to enter, I immediately had to remove my shoes. This isn't unusual, but it's not a request I like. The potential for stepping on something sharp (nails, needles, pins, thumbtacks, etc) that's fallen on the floor in these homes is great. Add a little rust, and well, I'm sure no one would like that risk. Plus, no one "attends" the shoes. There is always a great pile of footwear by the door and if someone leaving likes a particular pair of boots (that do not belong to said person), then who's to stop her/him from putting them on and walking out? This is a likely problem.
After removing the shoes, it was on to the next "station". A lady working for the estate sale company asked me to remove my jacket. What? "Too many small items in this house will tempt shoplifters," she said. "I'm not a shoplifter," I replied. "Well, jackets aren't allowed," came the response. By this time I was getting pretty mouthy. "Then if there are shoplifters, will you guarantee my leather jacket will be here when I return to get it?" I asked. She wasn't amused but said it would be. I couldn't stop myself but went further, "My jeans have pockets. Should I remove them, too?" The woman didn't find that amusing either.
Once past the layer of security, I continued to think that my efforts had better be worth it. Surely, there must be true antiques or vintage items of value. Even priceless, right? Why else would they make us go through all of this? Usually if there are small and valuable items for sale, those items are "held" behind a table or enclosure, manned by an employee, and available to view if asked. But that might be too logical, and besides, I'd just entered "Fort Knox". The search was on.
And the search was over just as I stepped into that first room. I think I gasped, but I'm not sure because I eventually realized my mouth was gaping open...a little hard to do both, but I might've gasped first. Looking around, I thought I'd entered a home that was on the verge of being featured in an episode of "Hoarders". Not quite there, but close. If there was anything of value, and that was doubtful, you had to dig to find it. Lots of plastic, and opened packages of figurines (think California Raisin dudes and the like). For the life of me, I was trying to figure out why a shoplifter would bother. If anyone was going to steal anything, they'd be doing the estate sale company a favor. I didn't see many purchases being made.
Thankfully, my jacket and shoes were as I left them, I didn't have to go through a "pat-down" before I left, and I complained all the way to the car (without buying anything). Of all the experiences I'd been through attending these sales, this was probably the worst.
Surprisingly, they hadn't enforced the cash only rule, as many estate sale companies do now. As a former business owner, I understand not wishing to pay credit card fees, but it's the nature of doing business in my opinion. As is the risk of dealing with shoplifters. You just don't treat everyone as a potential thief. Imagine the outrage if a national retailer, such as Macy's, made you shed your clothing before you were allowed in their store, simply because you "might be tempted" to steal something.
As for cash only...it might work for small sales, but there are sales with high end items (furniture, cars, electronics, fine jewelry) sporting price tags. A little difficult to deal with if you don't know the area, or where the nearest ATM might be. Imagine getting a wad of cash and reaching the door of the estate sale I just described. What? I can't take my purse in? Well, that's no problem. I'll just stick the money in my shoe (something I did as a kid when I went to amusement parks). I have to remove my shoes? Well, I'll just stick the money in my jacket pocket. What? No jackets? Well, what am I am going to do with my money? I have no pockets on my pants. The next logical place for a woman? The bra, of course! Hope that no one pays attention if something makes an appearance that shouldn't while you're fisting around the front of your neckline to pay for that lamp.
All of the above is in fun, but it does show how ridiculous it's become to attend these sales. Estate sale companies should stop taking themselves so seriously. I sometimes wonder what's next. Strip search, metal detectors, body scanners? Yeah, those California Raisin dudes are sure worth it.
It seems estate sales aren't what they used to be. Attending one recently left me with little, if any, desire to step foot in another one. Upon reaching the front entrance of the sale, potential customers were bombarded with signs that had been taped all over the screened porch. The estate sale company listed so many "dos, don'ts and warnings" that I wondered if we'd be searched upon entering. Close.
Entering wasn't easy. Handbags weren't allowed inside. All purses were to remain in your vehicle, the sign had read. Grumbling, I made my way to the car, stashed my purse and went back to the house. I sarcastically thought they wouldn't want me to leave my money in the car, now would they? This better be worth it, I griped further.
Once given the "yea" to enter, I immediately had to remove my shoes. This isn't unusual, but it's not a request I like. The potential for stepping on something sharp (nails, needles, pins, thumbtacks, etc) that's fallen on the floor in these homes is great. Add a little rust, and well, I'm sure no one would like that risk. Plus, no one "attends" the shoes. There is always a great pile of footwear by the door and if someone leaving likes a particular pair of boots (that do not belong to said person), then who's to stop her/him from putting them on and walking out? This is a likely problem.
After removing the shoes, it was on to the next "station". A lady working for the estate sale company asked me to remove my jacket. What? "Too many small items in this house will tempt shoplifters," she said. "I'm not a shoplifter," I replied. "Well, jackets aren't allowed," came the response. By this time I was getting pretty mouthy. "Then if there are shoplifters, will you guarantee my leather jacket will be here when I return to get it?" I asked. She wasn't amused but said it would be. I couldn't stop myself but went further, "My jeans have pockets. Should I remove them, too?" The woman didn't find that amusing either.
Once past the layer of security, I continued to think that my efforts had better be worth it. Surely, there must be true antiques or vintage items of value. Even priceless, right? Why else would they make us go through all of this? Usually if there are small and valuable items for sale, those items are "held" behind a table or enclosure, manned by an employee, and available to view if asked. But that might be too logical, and besides, I'd just entered "Fort Knox". The search was on.
And the search was over just as I stepped into that first room. I think I gasped, but I'm not sure because I eventually realized my mouth was gaping open...a little hard to do both, but I might've gasped first. Looking around, I thought I'd entered a home that was on the verge of being featured in an episode of "Hoarders". Not quite there, but close. If there was anything of value, and that was doubtful, you had to dig to find it. Lots of plastic, and opened packages of figurines (think California Raisin dudes and the like). For the life of me, I was trying to figure out why a shoplifter would bother. If anyone was going to steal anything, they'd be doing the estate sale company a favor. I didn't see many purchases being made.
Thankfully, my jacket and shoes were as I left them, I didn't have to go through a "pat-down" before I left, and I complained all the way to the car (without buying anything). Of all the experiences I'd been through attending these sales, this was probably the worst.
Surprisingly, they hadn't enforced the cash only rule, as many estate sale companies do now. As a former business owner, I understand not wishing to pay credit card fees, but it's the nature of doing business in my opinion. As is the risk of dealing with shoplifters. You just don't treat everyone as a potential thief. Imagine the outrage if a national retailer, such as Macy's, made you shed your clothing before you were allowed in their store, simply because you "might be tempted" to steal something.
As for cash only...it might work for small sales, but there are sales with high end items (furniture, cars, electronics, fine jewelry) sporting price tags. A little difficult to deal with if you don't know the area, or where the nearest ATM might be. Imagine getting a wad of cash and reaching the door of the estate sale I just described. What? I can't take my purse in? Well, that's no problem. I'll just stick the money in my shoe (something I did as a kid when I went to amusement parks). I have to remove my shoes? Well, I'll just stick the money in my jacket pocket. What? No jackets? Well, what am I am going to do with my money? I have no pockets on my pants. The next logical place for a woman? The bra, of course! Hope that no one pays attention if something makes an appearance that shouldn't while you're fisting around the front of your neckline to pay for that lamp.
All of the above is in fun, but it does show how ridiculous it's become to attend these sales. Estate sale companies should stop taking themselves so seriously. I sometimes wonder what's next. Strip search, metal detectors, body scanners? Yeah, those California Raisin dudes are sure worth it.
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Monday, June 3, 2013
It Isn't Called Plymouth Boulder
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| Parade along the Freedom Trail |
I've enjoyed and celebrated this time in many locations over the years. Looking back, I think one of the best places to spend July 4th is in the city of Boston. Where else to honor and celebrate our nation's history than in the city where patriotism began? Find yourself along the Freedom Trail on that day and you become part of the reenactments, mingling with and watching costumed actors recreate parades and the excitement of the period. At the Old State House, you can hear the Declaration of Independence read from the balcony, something that was done for the public for the first time at this same location on July 18, 1776.
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| Marker for Paul Revere's gravesite |
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| Plymouth Rock |
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| Salem, Massachusetts |
Even though I sound as if I'm working for the Boston Tourism office (I'm not), if you're looking for a place to go next month, or even next year at this time, consider this great city. Better yet, check the Boston tourism site and www.thefreedomtrail.org for a schedule of events. It truly is one of America's greatest cities and you'll certainly feel the patriotism on such a patriotic holiday.
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Wednesday, May 8, 2013
Daniel's Esperanza
I thought I'd give an update regarding the status of my latest novel, Daniel's Esperanza. It is complete but I'm researching new publishing options, which takes time. The manuscript is out and being reviewed by several sources and I hope to have some news soon. However, if I do go with a new publisher, it could still take awhile before the book is published. I'm impatient but there isn't much I can do at this point.
Since I've revealed the title in this post, I would like to say Daniel's Esperanza is written for the adult reader. I've strayed from my previous books, which were middle grade fiction, and tried something new. I'm very proud of the final product, which I wrote with a sequel in mind. I'm now outlining the continuing story and can't wait to begin writing.
Being rather superstitious, I'm not comfortable revealing the plot before publication even though the copyright is secured. I have mentioned research for the book took me to New Mexico and a wild horse sanctuary, but that's all I will divulge now. Hopefully, waiting will make the story that much more enjoyable.
Thanks to all who take the time to read my blog posts. It is appreciated. I do hope publication isn't delayed too much longer.
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